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Monday, October 8, 2007
Are You Alone?
Everyone can't resist the fact of being alone at least once in their whole life.This is particularly obvious for those late-aged person who lost their beloved one.The person would typically undergo the loneness in a long term of time,depends on what they have lost in their meaningful life.But in the other hand,the person might face the situation in just a blink,unexpectedly!Even though there is no actual statistics,the progress is somehow worldwidely known and experienced at all ages.
Nevertheless,being alone with the attached sorrow is not a good thing in the first place.Moreover,it could lead someone into an emotion-threatening.The person,however is actually encounter two related problems,that are the loneness,and the consequence ; depression.If left unsolved,the problems may grow gradually into another advance severe psychology diseases.To make it worse enough,almost all cases of mental-disorder are basically comes from the long exposure of being silencing without any effort to crowd it back.
In this blog,i would give a few solutions that could be very helpful for those person.Do these frequently,and you may notice the effectiveness.
-Go for a walk,and remember to bring along a company.
-Don't bother to change your appearance from nothing to a happy-go-lucky person.
-Try to find all sort of entertainment,even clapping both hands could be one of them.
-Build your own social life,but don't go too far,just make it moderate.
-Find yourself a compatible spouse.Don't attempt to seek for a finicky one.
-Buy a pet,train it to be your adoptive best friend.From there,you can also learn how to talk wisely to it.
-Go for an oversea vacation is advisable (especially London)
-Throw away every object that have a high tendency to bring your life into senseless for a second time.Such as your late wife pictures.But,if you find it too hard to accomplish,just keep those things chained in your store,don't reopen it anymore.
-Expand your hobbies,to make it more efficient,proceed a new one.
-Find an entertaining place to re-heal your loneness.
-If your depression and silence moment become unbearable,you can also try to do some freak things!Like wearing a teddy suit in the public,eating a crude burger's meat,share your lunch with your pet,counting a sheep's furs,chasing your own shadow,knocking someone's door and then run away,run against the wall,drinking a mixture of soda and lemonade,and so much more!These sounds a little bizarre,but trust me,they are said to reduce the leaking bore of a lonely situation. (",)
-Last but not least,consult for a psychology treatment,and get yourself motivated.
It is truly a homage for me if these solutions work fine within your life.
In a nut of shell,the two related problems are persistently detrimental to a human health.Hence,give your soul a chance to reform.Bring that sorrow to the end,put the meditate to a stop,unleash your new world instead! ROCK OUT YOUR LIFE!!!
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Assalamualaikum..
Syadan, ada lagi yang tertinggal. Maaf, saya tambah ya? Dalam hidup ini, kita tak pernah keseorangan, sebabnya, kita ada Dia (Allah swt)! Kita akan rasa keseorangan apabila kita tak menyedari kasih sayang-Nya. Fitrahnya, kita ingin mengasihi dan dikasihi (tak kisah apa dan siapa). Apabila dia tiada, kita rasa nikmat itu telah ditarik. Kita rasa keseorangan. Kecewa dengan hidup. Sedang Allah sebenarnya tidak menarik nikmat itu malah DIGANTI dengan yang LEBIH BAIK. Hanya hamba yang bersyukur dan reda dapat merasai. Insyallah.
Salam Alaika.
Ainey Nan
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